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Saturday, April 4, 2026
This was my assignment to my 8th grade Language Arts classes this past Friday to complete this next week over Spring Break (after they had finished the actual assignment their teacher had left for them).
They asked for an explanation and after I told them more about it and how it aligns with my philosophy of life, one student asked me to validate Them. I thought for a moment and told them that I appreciated how well they all got along with each other so well and seem to not only like each other but how they support each other so well.
Then I added that I hope that by now they realize that as annoying as school can be, they are no longer there to impress their parents or their teachers or their friends and that there is only one person they need to impress. I paused, a second or three passed and I heard a chorus of "ME!" One girl said in a sense of wonder, "wow, that actually makes me want to take this more seriously." And a boy said "That was like a Kobe Bryant message!" Another said "That is actually so motivating."
Two students simultaneously then related it to their class assignment that day which was to identify an archetype in the book they are reading - Hunger Games. They asked if I am a mentor, like an archetype mentor.
After three years, my favorite day of (substitute) teaching so far.
Friday, February 6, 2026
I've been kind of collecting some quotes and some of my own random thoughts over the past month or so and instead of, or maybe in hopes of, trying to make them go together in some coherent way, I'm going to throw these here morsels into this blog stew and see how it tastes in the end.
They are mostly related to things I would want to convey to the students I am honored and thrilled to teach when I get the chance. Whether or not I'll ever actually pass any of them along, I don't know.
-Your test score is a snapshot in time, not a prediction of your future.
- When you feel anxiety, ignore the condescending cliche "Go touch grass"...but do it anyway. Go outside. Feel the vibe. Touch trees. Really feel them. Listen to them. Breathe deep. Now do it again and as many times as you need. You'll never ever regret it.
- Who is the one person, the only person you need to impress? Yourself. Not your teachers, parents, or friends. Just you. And when you do, revel in it, but part of impressing only yourself means...keeping it to yourself. If someone else notices and compliments you? Yeah, go ahead and revel in that too.
- Give more validation than you want to receive.
- The real value of a good education isn't how much you know, it's how you choose to share what you know.
- How many of us spend our lives afraid of looking foolish? And how many of us make sure to always support someone who has said or done something foolish, even if it was at our expense?
- Are we more interested in judging someone or being curious about them?
- If you don’t believe in judging people, don’t judge people who do.
My friend since 11th grade, Terry Lefton, forwarded me this photo, which is appropriate both because he is in it, more or less alongside me, and because without him, I wouldn't have been at this game.
As I may have noted previously, besides family-related events, this was the happiest day of my life for reasons that are neither particularly explainable or defensible.
The date was May 19, 1974 and the event was the Flyers winning the Stanley Cup. One would have to look it up to see how important it was to the city of Philadelphia, but the quote I remember that may have explained it best came from the Flyers back-up goalie Bobby Taylor who actually came to be a friend of mine just 6 years later when I joined him in the broadcast booth as the statistician for the telecasts thanks to Pete Silverman. Pete had been my boss when I interned at 1210 WCAU-AM on the Philadelphia program my junior year at Earlham.
"It took a bunch of Canadians to come in here to blow away a big dark cloud from over the city of Philadelphia."
Anyway, this photo shows the celebration on the ice at the Spectrum as the NHL Commissioner handed the Stanley Cup to Bobby Clarke and Bernie Parent for them to skate it around the ice as was the tradition for decades in the NHL. When the buzzer had sounded and the Flyers had won 1-0, Terry and I hugged - first time I had ever hugged another male - and when we saw fans starting to climb over the plexiglass onto the ice, we looked at each other and didn't need to say a word. We were going too!
Monday, January 19, 2026
In a comparison that would probably upset fans of both of these artists, the Venn diagram intersect consisting perhaps of only me, it came to me the other night that there are a few things that Bruce Springsteen and Taylor Swift have in common, besides their obvious success.
Firstly, I think they both tapped in, early in their careers in particular, to perspectives that hadn't previously been represented in music: teenage girls and teenage boys.
Sure, lots of songs appeal to young girls, but they aren't usually written from their point of view like Taylor Swift has, albeit from a heteronormative idealized view, with Love Story and You Belong with Me being the most obvious examples (and happen to be great songs and videos, BTW.)
And well, I don't think I need to list all the Bruce songs that are written from the young male POV and most noteworthy, not in terms of girls but about their hardscrabble, working class lives. There have been so few songwriters over the years that have even tried to write from that perspective, but Bruce did it often and he did it brilliantly.
Secondly, I also think they, more than any other artists I'm aware of, have had a great connection with their fans, Taylor even more than Bruce. He shows it in the length and quality of his legendary live performances. But no one has the connection Tay-tay does and it's been a big reason for her overall success.
Oh, and it doesn't hurt that they both are unparalleled musical storytellers.
I've had various inspirations over the years for websites.
One of them was to track people who had never gotten the credit they deserved
for some important contribution to history, especially if more credit was given
to someone else.
So instead of a whole website, I'll just list them here as I
find out about them:
Claudette Colvin died last week. Her refusal in 1955 to give up her seat to a white
woman on a segregated bus in Montgomery, Ala., came months before it was
overshadowed by a similar act of resistance in the same city by Rosa Parks. But local civil rights leaders decided not to make Ms. Colvin
their symbol of discrimination. She was, she later said, too dark-skinned and
too poor to win the crucial support of Montgomery’s Black middle class.
And...
We all know the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.’s “I Have a
Dream” speech. While the poetry and prose were all his, the “I have a dream”
motif actually came from Black activist and minister Prathia Hall.
Hall delivered a prayer during a service commemorating the
Mount Olive Baptist Church, destroyed by the KKK. She spoke directly to God
about justice and equality, saying over and over, “I have a dream.” King, in
attendance, didn’t hide his inspiration. He told Hall outright he wanted to
iterate on her metaphor.
As Sen. Raphael Warnock says in Henry Louis Gates Jr.’s
excellent history, “The Black Church”: “People need to know that before it was
Martin’s dream, it was Prathia’s prayer.”
Rather than diminish King’s accomplishment, to me, this
underscores how the Civil Rights Movement wasn’t made by giants alone. It was
built instead with countless people’s gifts, intelligence, ideas, labor, acts
of resistance, works of art, words, deeds, sacrifices and, yes, prayers.
And bonus addition:
The woman who didn't get full credit for the discovery of
the DNA double helix with Crick and Watson was Rosalind
Franklin, a brilliant chemist and X-ray crystallographer whose crucial
"Photo 51" provided the key evidence for their model, but her
contributions were minimized during her lifetime, and she wasn't eligible for
the Nobel Prize awarded in 1962 because she had passed away in 1958. Her work,
shared without her explicit consent, was foundational, leading to her being
called the "dark lady of DNA" and a symbol of sexism in science.
So heck, just out of curiosity, I just googled "people
who didn't get the credit they deserved" and there was a whole list. So
maybe this will be my last post on the topic, but...probably not.
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