In my teens and 20's, I wanted to look great. 

Into my 30's, I wanted to look really good. 

In my 40's and 50's, I hoped I looked good enough. 

Now in my 60's, I realize no one cares what I look like. 

Well, except maybe me.

Be the change

Not sure which is more upsetting in the bigger picture: 

- the opinions expressed in Harrison Butker's speech 

or 

- people being angry that he has an opinion different from theirs.