And as I thought of things to post, I thought, what the heck do I know about sex really. I may not have the broad swath of experience to draw from that some guys say they do, and anything I could say has probably been written about extensively by people who either have a great deal more experience or who get paid to research and write on such things. So that said, instead of making statements about sex, I'll ask questions. I doubt anyone will respond, if only due to the sensitivity of the topics, but regardless, I'll spout away:
- Is it true that the more women have sex, the more they want/need, and the more guys have sex, the less they want/need?
- Do women have fewer sexual fantasies than men, and to the extent they have them, are less willing to share them? And are they more likely to share them with their girlfriends in just girl talk-like conversations, or their husbands/boyfriends?- Do most women have, brace yourself, rape fantasies of some sort? (This can be misconstrued. I think we have occasional fantasies that I am quite sure we would never really want to have happen. And I often wonder if that's just because of the repressed social mentality we have to sex.)
- I wonder who has more fantasies of having multiple simultaneous partners during sex - men or women?
- Is it true that women have a much larger variety of possible ways they like to be sexually satisfied, whereas men, it's all pretty simple really. Or is it?! Or is it that women don't necessarily have a larger variety of ways, but it's much more difficult to hit the right spot, as it were, whereas, again, guys have a pretty easy target?
Martie tried to coment but it didn't come through, so she emailed this to me: "OK, because I don't do the blog thing, I answered your comments but it looks as though they went the way of cyber space cause I cannot find them anywhere. So, I will repeat my answers here.
ReplyDeleteIf a woman is with the right man NO to the first 4 questions. DK anything about #5 because it's actually not important. As for your last inquiry, the right man wouldn't care one way or another. He would just enjoy playing along.
Please let me know if I can clear up any other misinformation you have acquired over the years. xoxoxo And thanx again for putting in something interesting. :~D"